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137. I don't need some external source to fill me.
138. I'm here, complete in my self.
139. I have definitely begun to believe in myself once again.
140. If I set out to do something, I do everything in my power to make it happen.
141. It's less about losing a part of you than it is about building and strengthening the parts that complete you.
142. It is less about 'quitting' something than it is about 'creating' the life you truly want to live.
143. Sight clarity is my present benefit.
144. No more f$#@^$n eye drops!
145. I now shower in about a third of the time it used to take.
146. The benefits of conquering cannabis addiction are huge, but there are many secondary benefits, which build on these.
147. I'm learning about how gratitude makes you feel.
148. It truly feels phenomenal to be in a place of strength where I have the ability to help someone else.
149. I am making progress, improving my self and my life in small steps each day.
150. Another benefit I noticed recently is that I can see much, much better in broad daylight.
151. Money to spend on other things
152. Being able to tell my pot smoking parents that I no longer touch the stuff. They actually admired my courage.
153. Instead of trying to busy my children so I can sneak away for a cone, I now spend time with my children being busy with them; the satisfaction is wonderful.
154. It feels good to be a better parent!
155. I have been re-introduced to my true emotions.
156. Feeling intense emotions without being ruled by them.
157. You can sit back and have this inner peace while the others are running around "clucking"
158. Being fully present, without lacking anything.
159. I am reaching new highs without drugs.
160. Arriving at a place that feels so much more real than pot-induced bliss.
161. Yes, there are many, many benefits. But at the end of the day, the whole is so much more than the sum total of those benefits.
162. I have a new relationship with my young son.
163. I am laughing more at my job.
164. My emotional health is off the charts.
165. My love relationship is thriving.
166. I feel tapped into something so much more mystical and rewarding than getting 'high' on inhaled smoke.
167. I went through the first winter in memory without getting seriously depressed
168. My life is WAY BETTER now that I had the courage and self-discipline to give up my addiction!
169. Everyone else who is close to me is feeling the 'contact high' of being around someone who is truly feeling great about life.
170. The benefits of living clean certainly begin to multiply and add up.
171. No more 'knee jerk' responses.
172. This basically comes down to better cognitive functioning (than when perma-stoned) and having the self-confidence to stand up for myself and do what is best for me.
173. Finding inner strength to change what needs to change.
174. I have made truly massive positive changes in my life since I quit smoking cannabis.
175. Clearing the smoke from my brain has allowed me to look for the roots of my unhappiness and do the work necessary to improve myself.
176. I have faith in myself: I will accomplish what I set out to do.
177. I also have the strength to keep going when the going gets tough.
178. I wrote a poem, and have the confidence to share it publicly.
179. I have the strength of mind now to let go of the things that used to aggravate me.
180. No longer blowing small things out of proportion.
181. I'm more trustworthy.
182. I do what I say I will these days.
183. I am grateful that I have kept my promise to myself this time.
184. I trust myself, so others can trust me.
185. I am no longer at a loss for words when speaking to people.
186. You will be able to speak your mind, and have people clearly understand what you're trying to express.
187. Each new feeling or gamut of emotion will be a revelation of joy for you. |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | A list of benefits from being free of cannabis (80-136):
80. Life is easier without pot.
81. The return of emotional ?seasons?
82. I can leave the house without having to get all my ?stuff? ready.
83. Easier to tune an instrument
84. Easier to get out of bed
85. Finding more inspiration in life
86. Developing mature, competent coping mechanisms.
87. Learning to enjoy to the fullest our families, jobs, free time, hobbies, and passions.
88. Feeling in control.
89. I have a stronger sense of optimism about my life than has ever existed previously.
90. I am finally reading all those books that I bought but never read.
91. I'm better at controlling other aspects of my health: I cook healthier meals; I exercise more.
92. The quality of my work is better.
93. I am more present for my family and friends.
94. I can carry on an intelligent conversation with other people instead of stumbling over my words and feeling like I sound like an idiot.
95. I don't have to stress every day about wanting to stop smoking weed.
96. I don't have to worry about hiding the smell
97. I am not constantly craving something every time I get bored or stressed.
98. My health is better, so I get sick less often.
99. When I get stressed out, I am a lot more likely to actually deal with the thing stressing me out, resulting in a lot less stress overall
100. I think I?m a better, less angry person with the people I love
101. I'm more interesting
102. No more phantom aches in my chest
103. My clarity of thought helps me cope with whatever comes my way without getting swept away by it.
104. Giving myself permission to let go of things that no longer serve me.
105. I can distinguish between what was weed induced (either while high, or grouchy when burnt out) and what is actually my core personality.
106. I have no need to smoke to be happy.
107. I am not constantly checking the time, to see when I can rush home to get high.
108. I'm coping with problems a whole lot better.
109. I can communicate my feelings a lot better.
110. Overcoming addiction was a learning experience and I?m ready to move on to the next chapter in my life.
111. Creating clearer memories than I've had in years.
112. Dramatically improved self-esteem.
113. I am laughing more
114. No panic attacks.
115. I'm talking with people rather than to them, and the people I don't know, I'm not just using a variety of stock responses (like a talking pull string doll).
116. I feel more independent and empowered.
117. My house / clothes / breath, etc. don?t smell like smoke.
118. No stress of feeling paranoid if someone stops by my house unexpectedly
119. No stress of health concerns associated with smoking ? asthma, bronchial infections, lung cancer, etc.
120. I once again have faith in myself.
121. No longer frozen in time
122. Getting glimpses of memories that I thought were lost forever.
123. I am gaining the perseverance required to walk this road of self-discovery.
124. At work I got my points across and felt like part of the team.
125. My rhythm and improv ability has improved, along with my ability to remember lyrics, not to mention my voice sounds so much less strained.
126. I have gained more by giving up my addiction that I could have ever imagined.
127. Since quitting I've had a lot more interest in doing new things, and more energy to combat any anxiety I feel about doing them
128. Grabbing onto the present and taking action here and now
129. I've sensed a very great rejuvenation of my feelings for others.
130. I can find it in my heart to forgive and say I'm sorry.
131. By helping others, I am helping myself.
132. My apathy is turning into sincerity.
133. I have an extreme desire to be a better father this time.
134. Enjoying feeling smarter, relating to my wife and child better.
135. Coming through the first week was like taking off a tight bathing cap.
136. It's like breaking out of jail. |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | Idézek ebből a fórumból (egy leszokott krónikus füves személyes tapasztalatai):
A list of benefits from being free of cannabis (1-79):
1. Clear thinking;
2. Breathe better;
3. Smoother mood transitions;
4. Sharper mental dexterity;
5. More articulate;
6. Better memory;
7. Working through stress more effectively;
8. Increased energy levels;
9. Reduced depression (after the first few weeks off);
10. Deeper interactions with others;
11. No "bottomless pit" munching out;
12. Boosted confidence;
13. No social anxiety;
14. Better focus on task at hand;
15. Enjoying simple pleasures more deeply;
16. Clear lungs;
17. No concern about hiding something from my son;
18. Less stress; increased faith in my ability to control myself;
19. No risk of arrest or legal troubles;
20. Increased joy;
21. Renewed self-respect;
22. More free time;
23. Need to sleep less;
24. More free cash;
25. Confidence to try new things;
26. Increased humility:
27. Asking others for help;
28. Better partnership with my girlfriend;
29. Better ability to learn and remember new songs;
30. Can travel without paranoia of border checks;
31. Safer driving;
32. No hassles of finding good weed;
33. No need to associate with shady dealers;
34. Not supporting organized crime;
35. True bonds with friends rather than co-dependent drug abuse ties;
36. Better fitness level;
37. Reduced consumption of resources (ex. hydro power to grow the weed, chemical sprays and fertilizers, lighters/matches, rolling papers);
38. New doors opening to spirit world (somewhere I only used to get to via cannabis);
39. Increased self-confidence to be "alternative" in ways other than drug use;
40. Confidence to take on any task I set my mind to;
41. Ability to strike up conversation with anyone I choose without fear or insecurity;
42.no paranoia;
43 increased motivation for self-improvement;
44. Feeling of wholeness that is not reliant on an external source
45. Not being enslaved by the need for weed,
46. No more feeling guilty
47. The most amazing dreams which I never have when I toke
48. Saving time
49. Communicating more
50. I?ve got another half of me that had been missing
51. I look a lot better rested
52. If I'm in a good mood, there is no predetermined "time limit"
53. Improved sense of smell
54. I have so much more energy than before
55. Deeper philosophical thinking (some of which still makes sense when explained to someone else!)
56. I have way more patience
57. I actually have the brainpower and mental endurance to answer my son?s seemingly endless questions without scorn or irritability.
58. I have the focus to finish one job before starting the next one.
59. Waking up in the morning feeling rested.
60. The return of wit
61. The ability to relate: I actually fully hear what people are saying, so my responses are more appropriate.
62. There is now way less stress in my life
63. I do a better job at work, so I have less to take home with me.
64. All of my relationships seem more vibrant.
65. I seem to have stronger mental control over my own moods and thought processes.
66. If there is a crisis, I have the presence of mind to do what needs to be done.
67. Experiencing natural highs
68. Have money to treat others and myself.
69. The ability to inspire other people.
70. The development of healthy habits.
71. A sharper mental game.
72. Increased muscle tone
73. Heightened sense of humour develops
74. Clearer voice (speaking and singing)
75. I have so much more love in my life now.
76. My son seems so much more responsive to me now
77. I feel like I am establishing new neural networks for coping with emotionally charged situations.
78. I have a renewed sense of life, waking up to greet the morning sun and air.
79. It is only through doing the work of staying balanced (riding both highs and lows) that I am able to offer a hand to others. |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | gén:
"Ha a saját pozitív tapasztalataid is sok ponton egybeesnek mások pozitív tapasztalataival, akkor a pozitív tapasztalatokról szóló bekezdést miért nem írtad általános alannyal? Ezt az inkoherens különbséget nem tudod már utólag kimagyarázni."
Nem tudom mire akarsz kilyukadni... Szerintem csak kötekedni akarsz. Leírtam egy kreativitással kapcsolatos specifikus személyes pozitív élményt. Azért nem általános alannyal írtam, mert mástól konkrétan ugyanezt, ugyanígy még nem hallottam. Ettõl függetlenül feltételezem, hogy másoknak is hasonló pozitív élményei vannak, bár ezeket nem hallottam mástól így, ugyanilyen formában.
A negatív személyes tapasztalataimat viszont már mástól is hallottam, ugyanolyan megfogalmazásban, mint ahogy magam fogalmaznám meg. De nem értem, miért ezen lovagolsz még mindig. Nem egy ember elmondta itt ebbem a fórumban is, és más helyen is ugyanazokat a negatív tapasztalatokat, amikrõl beszéltem. Miért dugod a fejed a homokba?
"Mondanád inkább ki egyenesen, hogy a fü _neked_ függöséget okozott."
Ha neked ez örömet szerez, akkor tessék: a fû _nekem_ függõséget okozott. Ugyanúgy, ahogy még sok más embernek. De ez már csak csûr-csavarás a szavakkal, ami nem változtat azon a tényen, hogy nem igaz az az állítás, hogy "a fû nem okoz függõséget".
"De talán mégiscsak megtaláltam a koherenciát: a pozitív élményekröl egyes személyben írsz, a negatívakról viszont második és harmadik személyben."
Köszönöm a nyelvtani elemzést. Kár, hogy ilyen felesleges dolgokra fordítod az energiádat, valami konstruktív helyett.
"Ha a fü okozná a motiválatlanságot, akkor elvileg minden "a füvezés motiválatlanná tett" tapasztalatot kísérnie kéne egy "...de amióta leszoktam a füröl, visszanyertem a motivációmat" tapasztalatnak, nem? Ezekröl nem nagyon szól a fáma - vajon miért nem?"
Az, hogy te nem látod ezeket a tapasztalatokat, az nem jelenti azt hogy nincsenek. Mégegyszer mondom: nyugodtan homokba dughatod a fejed, de ez mire jó?
Javaslom például ezt a fórumot kezdésnek, ahol leszokott krónikus füvesek mondják el, milyen pozitív változások történtek az életükben az után, hogy leszoktak:
Benefits of being off weed
http://uncommonforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=19212 |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | tripster:
"Mindenesetre tény, hogy a rendszeres fűfogyasztók egy része számára problémaként fogalmazódik meg a füvezéssel összefüggő motiválatlanság és depresszió, még akkor is, ha a te mikrokörnyezeted számára ez irreleváns. A világot nem a te mikrokörnyezeted alkotja."
:) Ez fasza beszólás lenne, csak a részedröl kissé legyengíti az ellenállás-értéket, hogy a lényegét én magam mondtam el a korábbi hozzászólásomban...
Ha a fü okozná a motiválatlanságot, akkor elvileg minden "a füvezés motiválatlanná tett" tapasztalatot kísérnie kéne egy "...de amióta leszoktam a füröl, visszanyertem a motivációmat" tapasztalatnak, nem? Ezekröl nem nagyon szól a fáma - vajon miért nem? |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | tripster:
"A negatív tapasztalatokról szóló bekezdést általános alannyal írtam, mert mások negatív tapasztalatai egybeesnek az én negatív tapasztalataimmal."
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"Én leírtam a saját (pozitív és negatív) tapasztalataimat, amelyek sok ponton egybeesnek mások tapasztalataival."
Ha a saját pozitív tapasztalataid is sok ponton egybeesnek mások pozitív tapasztalataival, akkor a pozitív tapasztalatokról szóló bekezdést miért nem írtad általános alannyal? Ezt az inkoherens különbséget nem tudod már utólag kimagyarázni.
"Ez nem felelõsséghárítás akar lenni, de ha az az elsõ gondolatod reggel hogy be kéne tépni, és folyton irracionális, ellenállhatatlan vágyat érzel hogy szívj, illetve néhány napnál tovább nem bírod ki betépés nélkül, akkor idővel kezdheted úgy érezni, hogy egy anyag határozza meg az életedet, a maga következményeivel."
Itt egy elsö személyü és/vagy harmadik személyü élményt mondasz el második személyben?
"Szóval nekem ne mondja senki hogy a fû nem okoz függõséget..."
Mondanád inkább ki egyenesen, hogy a fü _neked_ függöséget okozott.
De talán mégiscsak megtaláltam a koherenciát: a pozitív élményekröl elsö személyben írsz, a negatívakról viszont második és harmadik személyben. |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | | de jó volt olvasni az elmúlt 100-150 kommentet... |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | tester:
Csak a szerzök amerikaiak; a cikkböl kiderül, hogy a mintákat kelet-európai, többek között Magyarországról származó növényekböl vették. |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | | Vadkender vs. THC - azt azért ne felejtsétek el hogy ez nem ámerika. |
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| | | | | | | | | | | | Mostanában néha néha olyan érzésem van beszívva mintha zuhannék hátrafelé:D
Ez mitől lehet?:)
Annyira nem szokott para lenni, talán egy nagyon kicsit. |
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